I’m coming to terms with reality. I think I’ve been living in some kind of fairy tale. Well, my head has been thinking that I’m in a fairy tale, but I’m not this is real life and there aren’t always happy endings. That’s what I’m coming to terms with. Happy endings. I had this mindset in which I thought things were going to be a certain way but deep down I knew that that is not how they are. For example, this current situation I’m coming to terms with is the best, I was talking to this guy. And I was getting jealous over the fact that he was talking to other girls. But he kept saying “Janna, we don’t date. So of course I’m going to flirt.” And that was and still is the truth. We are both single. But he kept asking me out so I thought it was something more… but it wasn’t and it isn’t. I don’t think we’ll ever be more than flirt buddies because of his behavior, but that’s another story! But I just realized, guys are guys. If not in a committed relationship, they will talk to as many girls as they can because they CAN! Just like girls will do what they want when not in a relationship. Sometimes, we get so.. attached and we start visioning things that we want to happen. Fairy tales. But things don’t always work out and nothing lasts forever. You might start off walking down one road and end up at a cross roads. That’s just life. Expect the unexpected. And that’s what I’m coming to terms with…happy endings and all things… unexpected.
Whether it’s for the better or worse, you just have to learn to deal with it. I know it hurts sometimes when you tried so hard to make things work, and it didn’t. But trust me, there’s a meaning behind everything. Whether it’s the right time with the wrong person, or the wrong time with the right one, eventually things will fall into place, and you’ll be happy why it never worked out with the wrong ones.
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